Experience. Live. Let go. Move on.

I wish to extend my positive vibes to you today, friends. I hope things are going well with you these days. The weather seems unpredictable and it somehow affects us in a way or another. (perhaps, we cannot find an escape for not to be affected) Some of you may feel sentimental and emotional for some reasons, some may feel not in the mood of going out or proceeding with one's work. I guess it's normal to be affected by anything in general, whether by environment, experience, practice or people. What's important at the end of the day is that we  feel and treasure every moment because some things in life are not seemingly permanent.

Experience It.

It may be difficult to be offhand to the not-so-good-experience that we have encountered. It's okay. You may curse out loud. You may shout and curse the world for a moment. You may blame anyone whom you think responsible for your pain. Nobody will question nor say that you don't have the right to feel such. We have every moment in the world and this kind of moment does exist, but it will expire. It's good thing that you experience the hardship once in a while because life without it is not life at all. Hardship and pain mold us to be better, stronger and more humane, but we must not live in these because life offers more than these; more than what everybody thinks it can give.

Live Life.

I strongly believe that life is wonderful, but being wonderful does not only  speak to one's positive attributes. Let's accept it. Life is not perfect. No matter how we strive and put immeasurable effort, time comes that we experience our downfalls. It's normal, but everyone should not lose hope as life gives us thousands of reasons to stand and go on.  We may feel the pain for a while, but do not dwell in it. Do not let your lungs be inflated with pain, remorse and guilt. Always remember, life is not designed for us to be lonely. Always remember that God wants us to see, experience and cherish how great life can be. It's just a matter of realizing that days do pass by and as they pass by, experiences do. What remains in us are just memories that we can revisit and remember as aspirations. We just need to learn how to feel it and let it go.

 Let Go.

In life, letting go of something is undeniably difficult especially if that something has given us so much happiness - even pain.

Isn't it ironic that in truth those things which give conform, convenience and happiness to us are the ones which are very difficult to let go? but in many situations when we are hurt by someone we are indeed dwelling on the feelings for weeks, months and worst for years. We even curse the person to death as if to hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. 

I find its absurdity, but I cannot question why things are like that. I guess, we dwell more on that feeling because we cannot easily accept why things happened in such way, not in what we have expected them to be. But still at the end of the day, we should not  live in pain and hatred. We should let them go, so we could move on. 

Moving On.

Moving on might be a cliche for some, but these simple words are not easy as they indicate effort. Exerting effort not only by saying it but by living it. Living in pain and remorse will definitely lead us in hatred,which is not good for all. Friends, don't be ashamed to weep but don't spend your entire life weeping. Remember that when we are holding on something, we are less in giving and receiving other things. When we don't know how to let go of things, it would be very difficult and seemingly impossible to move on freely.  Live by good memories and try to kick out negative thoughts and feelings. With that, you'll experience that life is indeed wonderful.

Like anybody here, you deserve to be happy! You are deserving to experience the wonders of life, and remember its best is yet to come!

Always be happy,

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